You’ve Got Mail (and September is here!)
I've been hunting for "You've Got Mail" all week. Streaming services don't have it. I'm pretty sure I have the DVD somewhere, but finding it feels like more work than it should be. So now I'm actually considering buying my favorite movie for the third time. Which is wild. But also, that movie owns me in a way that no algorithm can replicate. I keep coming back. I buy it again. I tell other people to watch it (I literally just insisted that Chloe watches it before she goes to New York City in a few weeks).
That's what real marketing looks like. Not the version you're “supposed” to do or the optimized, algorithm-friendly, content-calendar version. This is the version where someone loves you enough to keep choosing you, even when it's inconvenient.
This is the conversation I'm having with our clients right now, who I lovingly call 'Disrupting Scalers'. You've built something real. Your customers showed up. And then you watched them get harder to reach because you've been chasing platforms instead of building direct access. You're treating your audience like a spreadsheet when what you actually need is for them to keep buying your movie, over and over.
And you know what I realized? There's a reason why those three little words — 'You've got mail' — matter so much. Even though email has been around for a long time now, it's still the one moment in someone's day when they know you showed up for them. It's how you make sure they can always find you. It's the one place where the relationship is entirely yours.
Visiting Cafe Lalo in November 2019 on our first solo trip to NYC without our kiddos. We spent the day on the Upper West Side doing all the ‘You’ve Got Mail' things. Jason humored me and we had the best time.
☀️ Bright Ideas
Each edition of our newsletter will highlight a marketing tip or industry trend we’re seeing in real time—along with our honest take. Whether we’re fans or not, we’ll share what’s working, what’s shifting, and how you can apply it to your own storytelling and marketing strategy.
TODAY'S TREND: EMAIL AS YOUR MOST HONEST MARKETING CHANNEL
Email feels old now. It's not flashy. It's not an algorithm. It won't go viral. Which is exactly why it works. Your email list is the one place where your audience actually chose to hear from you. They gave you permission. That permission is the foundation of everything else.
OUR TAKE
Email is not a broadcast tool. It's the place where you get to sound like yourself. Not your brand's official voice, but rather your actual voice. The customers who buy from you, who stay loyal, who refer you to others — they bought into how you think and how you communicate. Email is where that happens most clearly.
WHY IT MATTERS
Every social media algorithm shift, every platform change, every new feature you're supposed to master — none of that matters if you haven't built direct access to your audience. Email ownership is the one thing no platform can take from you. And it builds the kind of loyalty that outlasts trends.
THE GRAY AREA: FINDING THE HAPPY MEDIUM
Businesses treat email like a checkbox. They set up a newsletter, send inconsistent messages, then wonder why no one opens it. Or they swing the other way and send daily broadcasts that train people to unsubscribe. Consistency matters, voice matters, and relevance to your reader matters.
WHY IT MATTERS FOR YOU
If you're building something real, your customers need to know what you're thinking. They need to feel like you're building this thing with them, not at them. Email does that. A weekly or bi-weekly message that adds value, shares perspective, and builds anticipation does that better than anything else.
HOW WE APPROACH IT
We help “Disrupting Scalers” build email strategies that feel natural, not mechanical. We think about voice first, subject line strategy second, and consistency third. The goal is always the same: show up so consistently and authentically that people open your emails before they know what's inside because they trust how you think.
WANT TO LEARN MORE? LET’S CHAT!
Email strategy is one of the highest-leverage services we offer. It's also one of the most overlooked. If your email list is sitting dormant or feels disconnected from your actual brand voice, let's talk.
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